For a few months now, I’ve been working with a Spiritual mentor in a Mastermind group. The work we do is nothing short of awe-inspiring. I have come to learn something really important about myself through these masterclasses and energy clearings. That is, what we say inside & out loud makes ALL the difference in the world when we are creating what we want.
I often would shortcut through finding the “right” words during a conversation, in service to getting to a place of mutual understanding. But it would often come to pass that NO one understood me. Not as clearly as I would like, any how. Then I just figured it was their limited ways of looking at the world. But in truth, it was always more about me than anyone else. It was about how I saw myself and how much I truly wanted to be accepted and seen. And since I had that end goal in mind, I would change my words to match that outcome and please those people or that person I was talking to.
But here is what I know now. The spell had its lasting effects and grounded into my being. Words really do have the power to create magic. It is about speaking truth, being clear, and most importantly, not giving them away so easily. They are spells we cast upon ourselves & into our world. It is why when you are writing a word they call it, spelling. It is in fact what you are doing.
How do you feel about words? Are you not that invested? Maybe you can see a little of what my post is showing? Let me know in the comments.
What does worthiness mean to you?
How do you value yourself?
Is it a matter of what you earn?
How you spend your time?
With who you spend your time?
This is the inner work that all of us women must be vigilant in doing. After years of learning to play small, be a nice girl, don’t take more than anyone else, we must be constant gardeners of what our thoughts are on this topic of: self-worth. And it can only be defined by you, inside.
I consider myself someone who has dug deep in the well to find herself. I am emerging into, before your very eyes, my truest expression of myself to date! There is still some work, growth, and evolving to explore here. And that I find exciting, thrilling and even, adventurous. Does that surprise you? Well, I could say to myself, when will I be done? But I am a BEING not a done-ing. HA ha ha!
Once we are done, do we hear a bell? No we move onto the other side. Is that too morbid? If you don’t think you have anything else to learn or discover then what else is there to do? Wait…and (you know what). Hey this is life in the physical realm we do have a time limit. That doesn’t mean who we are, is limited though. Keep that in mind.
If worthiness is in question, how do we know where are value lies? Well, we only know based on our thoughts and feelings towards ourselves. Hence it’s an “inside job”. The best way to explore it is to find out how we speak to ourselves. And that, I know a little bit about and spoken on this topic in the past, under my former title of Self-love life coach. Negative self talk is a funny trickster. It can seem like the truth but it can also be a diminisher of your true self-worth. There is much to discover in this space. I find that women often don’t get a full chance to show their worth unless we TAKE IT. That step sometimes is the hardest one of all. It takes courage to be visible, say what is unfair or unjust, and TAKE POWER.
“Take” and “Power” are triggering to me. Why? Maybe because it feels so masculine feeling. I disassociate immediately because that is not the gender I identify as. At the same time, I want to be respected and powerful in my own way that doesn’t hinder another. How then do we get there as women? I’ve seen us all try in a number of ways. To exert ourselves forward in modeled efforts that fit more like a man. We need to find an established route. Then it begs this question: With so many of us uncertain of our worthiness, how can we find the will to take back our sense of self-worth and become powerful leaders as women?
I can see many ideas bubble to the surface as I reflect on this mantra: My Worthiness is not found anywhere else but WITHIN ME.
What arises in you when you think of how you value yourself?
Where are you on the scale of worthiness (self)? And when you explore this further do you find new answers of what you think you are worth?
And if you believe you are the best, are you ready to claim it?
This topic is a big juicy one.
Share with me in the comments.
What is so important about reading cards?
Reading cards is a simple tool that is easy to use. They also offer some great benefits for building and strengthening your spiritual gifts.
In this video, I tell you how I’ve used them over the years personally to help with:
- Guidance for the day
- Support for a specific issue
- Strengthening my intuition by using the cards
During the video I select a card and even I am surprised what I choose (take a look at my face in this photo here).
The message on the card actually enforces the video’s message about how intuition works through us when we trust it.
Why is it so important to be validated?
How do I help others embrace their own gifts?
Have you been wondering how to read cards? Or maybe you have been reading cards for awhile now but want a different approach?
Good News! I am holding a FREE webinar on November 25, 2019 @ 8PM (CET). You will learn:
how to select your own card deck
how to care for your cards
how to infuse your energy with the cards and why that is important
what cards work better for intuitive readings and,
how to read cards for yourself & others
This is for you if you are a spiritually-minded, spiritually-gifted and minded woman who wants to tap into her intuition by using this powerful tool!
When we feel gratitude, even just a bit, our hearts begin to open and real magic can occur.
Look around you now and fill in the following statement,
I am grateful for _________.
If you can find 5 or more things, and keep going, you will notice that your perception of your life in this very moment shifts. Now suddenly possibility is available where there wasn’t before. You feel more vibrant and alive in your body as if more is on it’s way. And guess what…it is!
What is actually going on here? Well, you shifted from your head to your heart. From logical thinking to feeling in your body. It seems like a funny little game but when practiced often enough you will see a level of grace and calm fall over your life that hadn’t been there before. What you have done is activated your heart’s energetic field and this allows you to feel more abundant, joy, and peace. But most especially you will feel optimistic and that everything is possible. You are shifting the conversation between head and heart. You are reversing from reacting to what is to acting towards what might be. It feels magical and inspiring. That has a vibration that reverberates out to the Universe that sends this message, “match this vibe (or better).” And because that is the language the Universe speaks, in vibrations, you get more and more. In ways you couldn’t have imagined possible. In ways that you could not have envisioned. And this will feel effortless. As it should feel. Because we are magical beings with the Universe supporting us every step of the way.
My CHALLENGE for YOU today:
Find time to look at what you are grateful for, say it outloud or write it down. And I promise you, you will start to see more things for you to put on that list. 😉